Happy 15th birthday to my grandson…

Ryan birthRyan CloseUp - CopyCloseUpBigsmileMy how he grew! From that scary first week in the ICU at UC Davis to toy trucks to tractors.

DSC00790DSC02977DSC02432From a “new ear” party to riding a bike to playing pirate with Mimi on his 5th birthday

 

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P1010818From testing out the school playground that Papa designed, to a hug for little brother Sam, to getting his first iPhone.

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2014-08-11 11.49.41Most of all, being a loving son, a great grandson, a star student as a freshman in high school, a cross-country runner, and a young man of integrity and faith. What more could a grandmother have? Except of course that there are three other younger ones just like him!

On losing weight and buying cars…

I know that other women get serious about losing weight when they start to salivate over a slinky new dress or want to look gorgeous for an upcoming wedding or be presentable at the beach. But not me. I think about whether I can fit into the car I want to buy. Right now I have a perfectly good KIA Optima which has plenty of room, sort of an automotive version of Not-Your-Daughter’s-Jeans. For those behind the times, NYDJ is the upscale très cher brand sold at Nordstrom’s with enough spandex woven in to bridge the gap between what size you think you are and what size you actually are.

MercedesI’ve never quite gotten over the fact that at age twenty-two, I owned a 190SL and could easily slide my then svelte body into its red leather seats and drive from San Diego to Illinois along Route 66 without a care.

Now I’m almost fifty more years down the road of life and I want a sports car again.

Honda S2000So off I went last week to look at a Honda S2000 which stopped production in 2009. It’s like a Miata’s much better-looking older sister with a tiger under the hood. I eyeballed it carefully as the salesman escorted me to the lot. Then I gingerly lifted one leg and squeezed myself into the seat. You know how bucket seats have raised edges–well, those protuberances felt like spikes sticking into my ample derriere, threatening to set off a major bout of sciatica. I extricated myself as gracefully as possible, relieved that the car’s battery was dead–my excuse for not taking a test drive. I’m sure the salesman had a momentary scary thought that he was going to have to bring in a crane.

2007_porsche_cayman_coupe_base_fq_oem_4_500But back in the showroom was a charcoal gray 2007 Porsche Cayman, with all the dangerous moves and fast-snapping speed of its namesake, the caiman alligator. It appeared roomier and I took the chance. Sliding in comfortably and with the smell of leather in my nostrils, I took to the highway. It sprang to life, although the dark tinted windows all around made me feel like I had just joined the subterranean world of drug lords. Aveline & Estelle April 2014

Price was right but the little upturned faces of my two and four-year-old granddaughters flashed before my eyes. They would want to ride in Mimi’s car but would be denied. How could that ever work!

MiniSo today I found a compromise. A brand new 2015 MINI 4-door hardtop. A entirely new model this year for those wanting easier access to the back seat without the clunky appearance of the Countryman. And in my favorite color Volcanic Orange with a black top plus a sunroof, automatic transmission and enough power, especially in Sports Mode, produced by its 2.0 Liter 4-Cylinder Engine with MINI TwinPower Turbo 189 HP engine to make you believe you’ve got your foot on the pedal of a sports car. Would have snapped it up on the spot but my daughter stepped in and brought me back to reality. I had gone in thinking I would take advantage of a real deal–but that was, of course, on the 2014 models. Isn’t it always true that you think you’ll buy the stuff of sale but see the new stuff and succumb? So although they were willing to deal, I need to wait 6 months until my lease is up on the KIA–big bucks to get out of leases early.

And, in the meantime, I can lose a few more pounds so that this smart and sassy little Volcanic Orange MINI will fit Mimi like a glove.

To err is human…

fly in ointmentThe fly in the ointment when self-publishing is thinking you can copy edit your own book and get away with it. In my rush to have MOTHER TONGUE released in Kindle and paperback versions before the holidays, I did my own copy editing. WRONG!

Just before my rush to publish, I had completed a major re-write in which I had changed from a third person point-of-view to first person. Unfortunately, one is capable of doing mass change-all edits with WORD and pronouns are incredibly capricious little devils. What’s worse is that spell-check does not always pick up the resulting grammatical errors because they are perceived as being correct even though the meaning is entirely altered. Case in point: “our” and “their”.

Example: I listened closely to our conversation when what I meant was I listened closely to their conversation. The first is not poor grammar but totally incorrect in terms of meaning.

can-you-read-this2You’ve all probably seen the passage pictured here about the power of the human mind. This is why it is so difficult to pick up these errors. Skimming over large volumes of material, our gaze slides over the little words like pronouns, especially when we’ve written them ourselves.

So, until a generous copy-edit-minded friend gave me the horrendous news  yesterday, I had no idea that there were over a hundred uses of “our” when I meant “their”. And a few minor typos to boot.

So, my sincere apologies to those who purchased either the Kindle or the paperback version of MOTHER TONGUE. I have made the corrections, resubmitted the interiors, and both versions will be available within the next 24-48 hours at Amazon.This is the up side of self-publishing. Corrections are very easily made.

For any of you paid good money for my novel and then threw your hands up in frustration or your Kindle down in annoyance, I would be happy to make reparations. A new paperback version can be sent to your door as soon as it is available or a gift certificate for a new Kindle version. Please use my CONTACT PAGE to send me your druthers. And a special kudos to those who gave me excellent reviews in spite of this–and they weren’t even relatives! You are kindhearted to the Nth degree or speed readers who never read the pronouns to begin with!

Je suis Charlie

je suis charlie crowdWith yet another mass assassination in the headlines, I think about of the string of banner headlines that have punctuated my seven plus decades here on earth. Assassinations, acts of terror, natural calamities. Just like you, I remember where I was and what I was doing at the exact moment that these tragedies came into my awareness.

funeral jfkThe first was the tragic death of JFK…the moment that our innocence as a nation was lost forever. I was nineteen, out of college for a semester due to a personal trauma of my own. I was in the family room of our three bedroom rancher high in the hills above La Jolla, the quintessential beach town where nothing could possibly go wrong. Our long-term cleaning woman, a proud and industrious black woman named Ezarine, was ironing one of my mother’s white blouses as I sat on the nearby couch numbing my own pain by watching As The World Turns when a CBS news bulletin flashed across the screen. As a truly shaken Walter Cronkite came on the air, I heard Ezarine gasp and watched her buckle to the floor shouting “oh, no” over and over. Later, as we both sneaked a smoke out on the patio out of sight of my mother, I watched the pain of lost hope drift across her face like an evening shadow stealing the last light of day.

rfk newspaperI was back at the University of Illinois living in the graduate dorm and excited to be involved in my very first political campaign…for Robert Kennedy. I was proud to have graduated from the namby-pamby I Like Ike politics of my mother to be part of the social justice scene. I recall sitting alone for hours on my bed weeping and staring at the eleven-inch screen of my television as they replayed the bloody scene in the back hall of the hotel again and again.

mlk balconyA year had not passed when Martin Luther King was struck down. I was in the hallway taking a class break when someone rushed in with the news. I remember the sense of isolation, realizing that few of my white classmates shared my own particular pain.

Len and Karen airportI was married to a black man at the time and immersed in the black community. I had experienced the slings and arrows of racism up close and personal. Four white college boys stopping suddenly in front of us and jumping out of their car with baseball bats, fleeing only when my husband drew a revolver out of the glove compartment. Being pursued through O’Hare airport by a redneck shouting obscenities at us at the top of his lungs moments after this photo was taken.

911 towersWoken by an early morning phone call from a friend on the morning of 911 just in time to flick on the television and see the second plane hit was shocking…yes. But somewhere deep inside, I slipped the images into place beside all the others and knew they would not be the last.

Now, the Paris I love, that I have visited almost a dozen times, that has always felt safe to me, even on the Metro in the dead of night, is stained with the blood of another brave generation of French revolutionaries. The only difference is that guillotine has been replaced by automatic weapons. Je suis Charlie. Je suis Martin. Je suis John. Je suis Robert. Je suis 3000 souls.

The day AFTER Christmas

2014-12-05 21.54.33I find the quiet today a bit disconcerting after eight days amidst the energy and enthusiasm of my four grandchildren. Although I’m still enjoying my annual flamingo Christmas tree.

The holidays began with a six-day trip to Oregon where my son Zach and daughter-in-law Amy are raising my two grandsons, Ryan almost 15 and Sam 11.

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At the beautiful Pittock Mansion in Portland

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Sam’s NinjaBread Cookies!

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The Oyster Themed dining room at the Pittock Mansion

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Zach and Amy whipping up great dinners in their kitchen

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Sam…the real ninja!

 

And I enjoyed watching the “boys” play with their Anki Drive car racing set–played on an iPad with real cars that zipped around the track on the floor. 

Then back to San Ramon for a Christmas Eve of baking…not one but two bûches de Noël plus Grandma Kinnison’s famous Christmas cookies. And Christmas day with Santa coming through with a train around the tree and much “FROZEN” bounty to the delight of the girls.

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Christmas dinner–oysters, salmon, foie gras (shipped in from New York!), caviar, butternut squash soup, filet de mignon and all the fixings

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Aveline and Estelle with some of their favorites.

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“I’m hiding!”

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“Peek-a-boo!”

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Bûche de Noël

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A wonderland of new Dicken’s houses for my daughter.

And finally, a Christmas greeting to my French friends on FB via my bilingual daughter and granddaughters and a French Christmas song by Aveline.

WANTED: French writer for translation exchange

templa1MOTHER TONGUE has stirred up much interest in Corsica, but my fans there are clamoring for a version in French. Paying for translation is beyond the means of this semi-retired grandmother. BUT I HAVE AN IDEA!

GOOGLE TRANSLATE is a starting point but, as we all know, yields a rather fractured version of the translated language.
 alt=I would love to locate a French author who would like his or her novel or work of non-fiction or even website translated into perfect and very literate English, starting with a basic GOOGLE TRANSLATE version. And he or she, in exchange could translate my novel into perfect and very literate French. An equal amount of effort on both our parts would produce publishable versions in each others language, with credit given of course.

Please spread the word to any of your French friends or colleagues who write and are looking for an excellent, ready-to-publish English translation at no cost. Those interested can reach me via my CONTACT page.

A icy 2002 winter in France

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These are a few of my favorite blogs…sing along!

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“My name is Graham Welch and I am a Francophile. This blog is a celebration of all things French – from France’s cuisine to its culture, from its people to its places. I intend to update it each day for a year, starting on 1 January 2014.”

BLOG: A YEAR IN PERIGORD

Lighting up Lyon and champagne for toasters
Cassoulet, confit, and camembert roasters
Provençal pleasures all tied up with strings
This is a blog of my favorite things.

 

jf_portraitI was born  to Irish parents living in England but spent most of my early life in Ireland. After years of teaching and traveling – everywhere but South America – i settled in Singapore and live here with my Malay family

BLOG: Johnpoetflanagan

Slums bulldozed clear as the afternoon passes
Tropical air as slow as molasses
Poetry lifting my heart with sure wings
This is a blog of my favorite things

 

cropped-dual-photo-blog-header-watermarked2Living on the French Riviera ~ Following your dream

BLOG: 24/7 in France

Matisse in Vence and Christmas in Nice
Fashions and fêtes and stuffed foie gras geese
Events and expats, and secrets of kings
This is a blog of my favorite things
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When my drain clogs
When the sky fogs
When I’m feeling sad
I simply remember my favorite blogs
And then I don’t feel so bad!

Happy Holidays from San Francisco

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Nothing like a trip to the Golden Gate Bridge the day after Thanksgiving to start the holidays off right. My children and grandchildren enjoyed a stroll across the famous span. And then it was time to put of the tree. … Continue reading

They make up…Excerpt from MOTHER TONGUE

french colonial villaLeaving a tense encounter at the house with the oblique staircase in the wilds of Niolo, Antoine pulls up to an seemingly out-of-place and dilapidated French colonial villa, its crumbling walls stitched together with ivy. At the end of a bizarre dinner prepared by their enigmatic host and having had a few whiskeys, Liz turns flirtatious.

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I wanted to stay away from the sensitive areas, at least for now. With the whiskey diminishing my resolve, I tossed out a flirtatious remark. “So, confess, Antoine, is that when you developed your passion for American women?”

Scafani shifted in his chair and faced me head on. He reached and tucked an errant strand of hair behind my ear. “Passion?”

The clatter of broken pottery and muffled shrieks from the kitchen interrupted the moment. “Those poor girls,” I said, downing the last of my third glass of whiskey.

incenseWith the meal was finished, I suggested we head back to Corte. As we walked back down the darkened hallway, Scafani reached again for my arm and tucked it under his. The front room was now filled with the pungent odor of sandalwood. He put his hand on my shoulder and turned me toward him. I paused a fraction of a second and then slid one hand around the back of his neck and pressed the other against his chest. Whether it was the whiskey or his obvious charm, I returned his eagerness as our kisses moved from tender to hot.

“Would you like to go upstairs?” he asked.

I jerked back to reality. “What!”

“If you really want to go back, we will. Just so you know, this is the only hotel in twenty kilometers.”

A laugh came from deep within my belly. “Do you bring all your women here?”

“Only the American ones.”

I allowed Scafani to take my hand and lead me through a door concealed in the room’s paneling. He guided me playfully up the steep staircase hidden behind, flicking his tongue over the nape of my neck on each riser.

“One bare light bulb hanging from the ceiling and I’m out of here,” I said, envisioning a shabby room with dingy sheets.

beautiful-bedroom-book-candle-candles-curtain-Favim.com-47709Scafani pulled me through the first open door at the top of the landing. I let out a soft whistle when I saw a mosquito-netted four-poster bed and three squat candles aglow on the dresser. “Spontaneous combustion?”

Scafani shushed me with a single finger to my lips.